Jake and I have found that we love Trader Joe's oatmeal. Actually we love any oatmeal that is multi-grain (why we still call it oatmeal I don't know) and it can't be cooked to mush. We love our oatmeal flaky.
Here is a rendition where we included Crasins, Sultanas, Raisins, & Nuts. We usually use just a dab of honey to sweeten.